Austin's Inclusive and Vibrant Scene: A Queer-Friendly Guide to Explore and Celebrate Diversity
By Luki Martino,
sofly Social co-owner & instructor
Welcome to Austin, a city where the vibrant hues of diversity paint the skyline, and inclusivity dances through the streets. This travel guide is your passport to experiencing the heart of the Live Music Capital of the World through an LGBTQ+ lens.
In a city pulsating with energy and pride, I’ve curated an immersive journey specifically celebrating LGBTQ+ culture.
This guide unveils a tapestry of experiences, introducing you to a mosaic of establishments owned and operated by the LGBTQ+ community.
From cozy cafes to lively bars and boutique shops to thrilling entertainment venues, I’ve handpicked destinations that resonate with the spirit of inclusivity and acceptance.
While this LGBTQ+ travel guide focuses on queer-owned businesses and businesses who have publicly stated their allyship, feel free to check out our inclusive bachelorette travel guide, where we ensure recommendations are safe and welcoming for everyone across the spectrum of identities. Your safety and comfort matter to us as we curate the best experiences for y’all.
LGBTQ+ Friendly Nightlife in Austin
Malum Malus Samhain Burlesque at The Vortex Theatre
Butterfly Bar & The Vortex
Situated within The Vortex Theatre, The Butterfly Bar adds an extra layer of allure to this artistic venue, offering a unique bar experience amid diverse performances. As a dedicated cocktail haven within the Butterfly Bar, it complements The Vortex's diverse array of performances, notably featuring burlesque showcases highlighting talented artists of all genders.
Under the direction of Blaise Ricin, a respected burlesque instructor and the bar's creative director, patrons can indulge in a captivating blend of artistic entertainment and craft cocktails, creating an inclusive and mesmerizing atmosphere.
Lesbutante and the Boss
A dynamic duo, orchestrates a range of inclusive events, from vibrant dance parties to community-driven takeovers of straight bars, providing a platform to mingle while supporting LGBTQ+ initiatives. Their diverse gatherings offer a welcoming space for people to connect, celebrate, and advocate for inclusivity. Through their innovative events, Lesbutante and the Boss foster a vibrant community, promoting unity and amplifying LGBTQ+ representation across Austin's social landscape.
Cheer Up Charlies
Cheer Up Charlies, often considered the go-to spot for Austin's lesbian community, stands as a vibrant vegan bar resembling a colorful cabin with a spacious outdoor music venue.
With a staff known for their fun vibes, this venue offers an array of delights including a, kombucha on tap, fantastic organic juice blend cocktails, local beers, and biodynamic wines. The large parachute-shaded patio creates a perfect setting for afternoon drinks and conversation. Additionally, the venue hosts nightly music and events, along with movie screenings and storytelling sessions on other occasions.
Under the parachute at Cheer Up Charlies
Outer Haven Disco Club
Austin’s independent club; there are no deep-pocketed investors behind the scenes. This club takes pride in providing its staff with a fair and livable wage.
Indulge in extravagant Karaoke events from Tuesday to Thursday throughout the week, living out your fame fantasies. On Fridays and Saturdays, dance into the night and immerse yourself in the vibrant atmosphere. Additionally, for those seeking a top-notch event space, the club offers a luxurious private room situated above the main dance floor, available for rent.
Oil Can Harry's
As the longest-operating gay bar in Austin, Oil Can Harry's is renowned for its vibrant drag shows held weekly. Come Fridays through Sundays at 9 PM, the venue transforms into Harry’s Dark Bar, offering a uniquely enticing atmosphere where guests can explore their deepest desires within Austin's most alluring and intimate entertainment venue.
Rain on 4th
At Rain on 4th, expect a club experience that might not live up to its self-proclaimed 'upscale' status, as the drinks can be watered down and the venue is often densely packed.
However, despite these factors, Rain on the 4th offers an undeniably good time! Embrace the energetic atmosphere, dance the night away, and enjoy the lively entertainment featuring their charismatic go-go boys. This ensures a sweaty and unforgettable night of fun.
The Eagle
The Eagle stands as Austin’s sole leather bar, offering good food by day and exceptional drinks by night, mainly catering to the fetish community. As a welcoming and non-judgmental space, The Austin Eagle fosters an environment where patrons can freely express themselves.
Known for its acceptance and understanding, this establishment serves as a judgment-free zone, embracing the diverse needs and desires of the fetish community and providing a comfortable and inclusive atmosphere for all.
Raw Austin Pride Party at the Eagle
The Iron Bear
Established by and for the bear community, warmly welcomes everyone through its doors. This inclusive bar offers a haven where Bears and their admirers gather in a spirit of camaraderie and unity.
Providing a laid-back atmosphere, it's the perfect spot to unwind, enjoy a cold beer, and engage in fun conversations with familiar faces and new friends. Moreover, if you feel like letting loose and hitting the dance floor shirtless, there's no judgment here—just good vibes and a welcoming space to groove and enjoy the night.
The Iron Bear
REQUIRED ACTIVITY 🙃
Step into a world of excitement and empowerment at soFly Social, a pole dance extravaganza designed exclusively for your group to break free from the ordinary and unleash your inner confidence and allure.
Experience an exhilarating private party featuring pole dance, burlesque, booty werk, chair tease, or our aerial sampler consisting of aerial silks and lyra at Texas's largest pole dance studio.
Owned by members of the LGBTQ community, persons of color, and women, soFly Social invites you to discover the thrill of trying something new in a supportive, empowering environment, embracing your sexy and playful side.
Delight in personalized attention with 1:1 pole availability, captivating lighting that sets the mood for unforgettable selfies, celebratory champagne toasts, and a specially curated gift bag, igniting the adventurous spirit within. Get ready to shed inhibitions, tap into your sexy, and create memorable moments full of fun and empowerment at soFly Social!
Susan Post, owner of Bookwoman
LGBTQ+ owned shopping gems
Bookwoman
Since 1975, Bookwoman has proudly stood as Austin's sole feminist bookstore, evolving into a beacon of inclusive literature. Offering a diverse array of LGBTQ+ and womxn-authored books, this haven curated by owner Susan Post transcends its shelves into a sanctuary for all identities.
Bookwoman isn't just a bookstore; it's a safe space fostering exploration and understanding through inclusive literature, inviting people from various backgrounds to engage with empowering and thought-provoking narratives celebrating the vibrant spectrum of identities.
Mary Jae
Inclusivity and empowerment take center stage. This BIPOC and LGBTQ+ women-owned dispensary offers more than just cannabis products—it celebrates diversity and expertise.
With a focus on inclusivity, their knowledgeable staff curates a thoughtful selection of THCA flower, vapes, edibles, and charming glassware and paper goods. Beyond the products, Mary Jae embodies a welcoming space where customers of all backgrounds can explore cannabis offerings while feeling embraced, supported, and represented in the cannabis community.
The Little Gay Shop
Step into the vibrant world of The Little Gay Shop, where every item tells a unique story of queer artistry and expression. This welcoming haven offers an eclectic collection—books, magazines, art, apparel, pins, and more—crafted by hundreds of talented queer makers.
From thought-provoking literature to captivating art pieces and stylish apparel, The Little Gay Shop celebrates LGBTQ+ creativity. With every purchase, you're not just acquiring a piece; you're supporting the heartbeat of small queer businesses, fostering a community of diversity, and embracing the vibrant spectrum of queer culture and expression.
Justin Galicz and Kirt Reynolds, owners of the Little Gay Shop
Package
For over three decades, Package Austin has been an integral part of ATX's vibrant queer culture. Originating as an adult video store in the early '90s, it has evolved into a contemporary, cutting-edge fashion boutique offering an array of adult toys and novelties.
Embracing its roots while evolving, Package Austin is a modern icon, fusing fashion-forward sensibilities with a diverse range of adult offerings. With a history deeply intertwined with the evolution of Austin's LGBTQ+ scene, Package Austin remains a treasured cornerstone, catering to diverse tastes and preferences in both style and adult indulgences.
Bulge shorts from Sir Rat Leather & Gear
Sir Rat Leather & Gear
Ready to hit the Eagle Bar, but forgot all your leather at home? Fear not, Sir Rat has you…. errrrrr…. covered!?! They have it all from leather harnesses, chaps, shorts, vests, and even leather polo shirts! They also have a fun array of leather daddy t-shirts so you can rep your leather pride out on the streets.
The Glass Coffin
Enter the realm of the extraordinary at The Glass Coffin—an oasis for witches, occult enthusiasts, and lovers of the bizarre. Housing an eclectic array of skulls, books, statues, taxidermy, jewelry, and more, this mystical emporium beckons the curious and the curious-at-heart.
The Glass Coffin welcomes you to explore their offerings. Open on weekends—Friday and Saturday from 12 PM to 6 PM and Sunday from 12 PM to 5 PM—indulge your curiosity and unearth peculiar treasures at this intriguing haven for the extraordinary.
The Glass Coffin
la Barbeque
LGBTQ+ owned culinary delights
When dining out in Austin, securing your dinner reservations can make all the difference in savoring the city's culinary delights.
With a thriving food scene and popular eateries bustling throughout the week, making reservations well in advance is highly recommended and sometimes even essential.
PRO TIP
Consider turning on notifications for last-minute openings at your desired restaurant using the Open Table or Resy apps. Some restaurants occasionally release unexpected openings due to cancellations or schedule changes.
Turning on notifications unlocks a coveted dinner spot, even if you can't secure a reservation in advance. We've snagged many last-minute openings utilizing this tactic.
Fukumoto
Discover the hidden culinary gem of Austin at Fukumoto, an LGBTQ+-owned haven celebrated among locals for its exceptional traditional Japanese cuisine. This local secret specializes in izakaya dining, offering tantalizing yakitori skewers grilled over Japanese charcoal, exquisite sushi, sashimi, and comforting Japanese classics.
With a mastery that extends to every dish, Fukumoto’s commitment to authenticity and flavor shines through, delivering a genuine taste of Japan. Beyond its culinary prowess, Fukumoto boasts an extensive sake selection, expertly paired to enhance the diverse flavors of its menu. Unassuming yet unparalleled, Fukumoto invites you to experience an unforgettable journey into Japanese gastronomy, where passion meets perfection in every delightful bite.
Kazu Fukumoto, chef and owner of Fukumoto
la Barbecue
Situated on E Cesar Chavez, it isn't just a BBQ joint; it's a testament to breaking barriers and celebrating diversity within Texas BBQ. Founded by LeAnn Mueller, daughter of BBQ legend Bobby Mueller, and her wife Alison Clem, this establishment blends tradition and innovation under LGBTQ+ ownership.
Beyond its mouthwatering, slow-smoked meats, La Barbecue champions authentic BBQ culture while challenging stereotypes in the industry. It's a flavorful homage to heritage and inclusivity, where patrons savor not just delicious brisket and ribs but also a community-driven celebration of love, legacy, and progressive culinary innovation.
Arlo Grey
Located within The LINE hotel, culinary excellence meets an inviting lakeside atmosphere. Headed by Top Chef winner Kristen Kish and Executive Chef Alejandro Munoz, this restaurant celebrates diverse flavors inspired by Kish's Midwest roots and Central Texas's rich produce.
Infusing French and Italian culinary traditions with Kish's personal touch, the menu offers a soul-nourishing array of dishes. Whether seeking a casual yet memorable dining experience or a taste of meticulously crafted meals sourced from local ingredients, Arlo Grey invites you to indulge in a delightful culinary journey.
Interior of Arlo Grey
The iconic Austin sign originated as a heartfelt gesture by Amy Cook to her partner Liz Lambert
Coffeeshops
Patiika
The brainchild of partners Andy Wigginton and Nick Krupa is an oasis of coffee excellence and pastry indulgence. With their signature Superthing roasted beans, this haven offers a symphony of flavors that captivate the senses. Hailed as one of the town's best brunch spots on weekends at their S. Lamar location. Patiika is famed for its legendary Brown Butter Cinnamon Latte. From their meticulously crafted brews to delectable pastries, this establishment marries passion and quality, inviting patrons into a world where every sip and bite is a testament to coffee and pastry artistry at its finest.
Jo’s Coffee
A testament to love and community, encapsulated by the iconic "I love you so much" sign. Crafted by local musician Amy Cook in a heartfelt gesture to her partner Liz Lambert, the sign quickly became a beacon for visitors and locals alike. Its magnetic charm draws crowds seeking a perfect cup of coffee and a moment to capture the city's essence in a photograph. A visit to Jo's is a quintessential Austin experience, inviting all to savor a delightful brew, capture memories at the famed sign, and immerse themselves in the vibrant energy of South Congress Avenue's eclectic scene.
Try Hard Coffee
Every sip is an invitation to savor Austin's essence. Nestled amidst the vibrant city, Try Hard offers both a brew and an experience. Their fantastic patio beckons, a sanctuary to unwind and embrace Austin's unique vibe. It's more than a coffee stop; it's a moment to pause, sip, and immerse yourself in the city's rhythm, making Try Hard Coffee the perfect spot to relax and elevate your Austin experience.
Mary's Café
Born from owner Kenneth Gambone's gratitude towards his mother—who selflessly gave him a kidney—Mary's embodies the inclusivity and compassion of its namesake. With a vision to create a social haven, it welcomes everyone as they are, fostering a sense of belonging. Serving breakfast all day and offering mouthwatering paninis and salads for lunch, Mary's Café isn't just a dining spot; it's a heartwarming tribute to family and compassion and a gathering place where acceptance and delicious cuisine intertwine.
RECOMMENDED STAY
A serene ultra modern oasis right smack in the heart of SoCo.
From the cactus in the corridor to the custom-made kimono bathrobe and pool, the design and amenities at the Hotel San José have been thoughtfully considered in an effort to make your stay restful, enjoyable and reflective of the spirit of Austin.
Hotel San Jose is an LGBTQ Owned and Woman led establishment.
Cute Nail Studio’s East Side Location
Daddy’s Barbershop
An award-winning, gay-owned establishment, it brings its legacy from San Francisco's iconic Castro District to the heart of Austin. With 15 years of dedicated service to the LGBTQ+ community in San Francisco and Palm Springs, Daddy's expanded its vision to its home state, opening its doors in Austin in early February 2023.
Rooted in the art of 'old-school barbering,' Daddy's offers its timeless expertise to clients of all genders. Beyond a haircut, it's a haven where expertise, inclusivity, and a rich history merge, offering a grooming experience that transcends boundaries and welcomes everyone into its legacy.
Treat Yo'Self
Scissor Sisters Salon & Spa
Welcome to the glamorous world of Scissor Sisters Salon & Spa, where beauty and spectacle intertwine. Step into a unique experience reminiscent of a hair show, where blue velvet theatre chairs offer front-row seating for guests to lounge and indulge in complimentary beer, frozè, or non-alcoholic beverages while witnessing the magic unfold.
Specializing in vivid color treatments, styling, and makeup services, Scissor Sisters Salon & Spa ensures every client receives the star treatment. It's more than a salon—it's an immersive journey into glamour, pampering, and a touch of showbiz allure.
Cute Nail Studio
Enter the enchanting world of Cute Nails, an extraordinary salon with a whimsical twist. Founded by a mermaid-owned, anarcho-socialist feminist collective celebrating the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, this salon isn't just about nail art and skincare—it's a celebration of self-love and vibrant expression.
Nestled within pastel hues and rainbow motifs, Cute Nails invites you into their nurturing space, where every stroke of nail art and skincare ritual is infused with genuine adoration. Beyond a salon, it's a safe haven embracing diversity, inclusivity, and a sprinkle of mermaid magic, welcoming everyone into its nurturing embrace.
Knot Detective Massage
Led by the exceptional Katie Culley and her adept team, Knot Detective stands as a sanctuary for diverse communities seeking transformative bodywork. Renowned for their mastery in aiding athletes such as dancers, motocross bike riders, runners, and cross-fit enthusiasts. Knot Detective embodies inclusivity and expertise.
Beyond athleticism, their holistic approach supports geriatric patients while proudly advocating for the LGBTQ+ community. Driven by a mission to understand individual needs, their tailored bodywork treatments exemplify unwavering dedication, continuous education, and an ethos centered on relieving pain and empowering movement.
Keep Austin Weird
Cocktail Cowboys
Yeehaw! Saddle up for an unforgettable experience with the Cocktail Cowboys. These dashing hosts are here to turn your house party, brunch, or poolside gathering into a legendary event. With their charming expertise, the Cocktail Cowboys offer various services beyond mixology—think bartending skills, lasso throwing, butler-like attentiveness, infectious hype, and more.
Whether you need a bartender to shake up your favorite drinks or a charismatic hype man to elevate the mood, these cowboys bring a dash of flair and a lot of fun, ensuring every moment becomes an unforgettable rodeo of entertainment and hospitality.
Texas Rose Dance
Get your boots ready for the ultimate celebration of dance at Texas Rose. Since 2009, this vibrant community has been a welcoming hub for womxn and trans-inclusive queer folks passionate about country western dance.
Meeting every second Saturday of the month, Texas Rose offers lessons from 6:30 to 8:00 pm, followed by open dancing until 10:10 pm. Embracing inclusivity, their sliding scale entrance fee of $10-$20 ensures everyone can join in the rhythm of the Texas two-step and revel in an evening of camaraderie and line dancing that's as spirited as it is inclusive.
Coco Coquette
Step into a world of glamour and sparkle at this dazzling paradise for wigs, all things sparkly, and makeup wonders! This haven doesn't just offer beauty—it's an experience. Hosting wig parties that transcend ordinary gatherings, guests receive a mini makeover and a fabulous wig to strut home in style. But the excitement doesn't stop there—this place knows how to amp up the fun! With captivating party add-ons like guest appearances by Drag Queens, mesmerizing lashes, and tantalizing tarot card readings, every visit becomes an enchanting journey into a world of shimmering transformations and delightful surprises.
Coco Coquette
Hippie Hollow
Discover the natural beauty and liberating atmosphere of Hippie Hollow, nestled along the stunning shores of Lake Travis. As Texas' only clothing-optional public park, Hippie Hollow invites visitors to embrace freedom and nature in a serene setting.
Located within Travis County, this picturesque park offers breathtaking vistas, tranquil waters, and hiking trails, providing an escape into the unspoiled beauty of the Texas Hill Country.
Slick Dick’s Wild Ride
Are you ready to tame the bologna pony? Well cum n ride it! Slick Dick's is the first and only dick arcade in Austin Texas!
Austin's Inclusivity and Celebration of Diversity
Austin's dedication to inclusivity and celebration of diversity is truly unparalleled. Whether you're here for the party scene or seeking a taste of Austin's vibrant LGBTQ+ friendly spaces, embrace Austin's inclusive spirit and energy.
We invite you to experience the vibrant and inclusive atmosphere at soFly Social, where diversity is celebrated and unforgettable moments are made. Join us at soFly Social for an extraordinary celebration of diversity and empowerment!